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Why A Straw Cup Is Better Than a Sippy Cup or Bottle for Oral Motor Development

Poor Noah has to deal with a pediatrician as a mom.

That means that he didn’t get fun bumpers on his crib. (Not to mention that the crib must be following the new guidelines.) He won’t get a walker. He will get every immunization. And we will attempt to wean off that bottle by one year of age.

This may be asking a lot of my little man, but I believe he can do it.

Why the sippy cup is bad for oral motor development

“Sippy cup? Those are for babies!”

The sippy cup has become the go to cup after the bottle. This may be great for a typical child, but to help with oral motor development we need a regular cup or one with a straw. You saw us try with the straw a few weeks ago. First attempts are not meant to be successful and we have five more months to go right? We tried just a regular cup tonight.

Noah wanted to grab it right out of our hands and get his tongue on that pear juice. He thought it was awesome! Granted the majority of it ended up on the burp cloth underneath his chin, but it was a great start. 🙂

When should my baby stop using a bottle?

“Drink from a cup…? Yeah, I got this!”

Why do we ask parents to be off the bottle? For one it is really bad on the teeth. It allows the sugary substances to hang out in the mouth a little longer than they should. It is also thought that if once a child is older and feeding themselves that if they are walking around with a bottle in their mouth all the time they will not use their mouth to communicate.

If you’re baby is under one year old be sure to check out this post on how to choose the best bottle for your child.

Straw cup vs. the sippy Cup

The straw is important for proper tongue placement in the mouth and helps build strength for their oral motor skills. The sippy cup does not promote proper tongue placement. You can always buy a straw cup but other methods for trying a straw are using a juice box or capri sun. This way you can squeeze the fluid into the mouth. Seth’s mom taught me this trick. I have yet to try it, but it will likely occur soon at our house and we’ll be sure to post a video for you.

Drinking from the cup as Noah is doing also promotes good tongue placement and oral motor skills. While it may be messy, we’ll gladly  put up with it to help Noah with his speech development.

Ok, let’s see. Does baby Noah like Avocado’s…?

“Ummm, no thanks…!”

“Food is fun.” 🙂

We love the heck out of this little guy.

What cups, straws, bottles, sippy cups have you had success with? Take a minute to leave a comment below telling us about your experience with any of these.

Noah's Mom, MD

Noah's Mom is a pediatrician and the mother of a child born with Down syndrome. She enjoys helping people understand Down syndrome in a clear and easy way, and sharing what she has learned along the way. Be sure to stay connected.

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  • Freddie is just starting with a cup - we tried him with all sorts of beakers with teats etc and he hated them. He watched mum and dad drinking their cups of tea (!) and it became clear that he wanted to do the same. When we tried him with a plastic cup and some water he got the hang of it straight away. He looks so pleased with himself and there's much less water on him than with the dreaded beakers... We are going to pursue straws next though as I know they are excellent for improving tongue position etc

    • Let me know if you find any tricks with the straw! That is why I tried with Noah. He tried to drink from my straw the other day at lunch and I was like hmmm :) We will keep trying.

      • With our kids we used straws really early. You make sure you start out with putting your finger on the end so that it picks up a bit in the straw and then drop the drops in their mouth so they know what comes from it. Then when they like what they can get from it and want more you suck up the liquid to the top and pinch it off so that when they start to suck they are not sucking it all the way up from the bottom getting frustrated that it takes so long. The should only have to suck a tiny bit to get it to their mouth. Then when they get the hang of that then you let them suck it all the way up the straw themselves. But I am sure you already knew all of this :)

        • That's exactly how my brother-in-law taught one of his kids (almost a year old) to drink from a straw. Granted, he's a typically developing child, but he figured it out in about five minutes at a restaurant.

          Avent has some straw cups that look pretty interesting. Don't know how leakproof they are, though.

      • Talk tools has a great regimen for helping teach straw drinking to young children. I've used it a few times with children in therapy (I am an SLP) and with my own son when he was 6 months old. It was effective In those instances

  • Firstly, let me congratulate you on the amazing website!! Brilliant information, beautifully laid out and very accessible and positive about everything! Shame there aren't more parents like you ;-)

    My daughter Seren (now 13 months) was breastfed, never had a bottle, and when it came time for her to drink, I went straight to a straw - which she still uses today. I bulk buy disposable straws and carry them everywhere. She only drinks water or milk, so I can easily dunk a straw into my water or a water bottle.

    I managed to get Seren to drink out of a straw from 7 months old. I did it by using a shallow cup, half filled with water - quite cold water so she could feel it immediately in her mouth. I cut a straw down to about the length of the cup plus 1cm, so it just came over the rim. Then I brought the cup right up to her mouth and tilted it so the liquid was almost at the rim of the cup. By the time she got her lips around the straw and made any kind of sucking motion, the cold water was right in her mouth. She got the technique within the first couple of goes. As she got stronger with her sucking, I lengthened the straws to she understood she had to suck a little more to get the liquid. Now she is an expert!! I reckon I could give her a foot long straw and she'd be able to get the last of the liquid out of a cup!!

    • Those ideas are brilliant!! I am going to try the cold water. Congrats on breastfeeding for so long as well, that is awesome!

    • Hi would just like to say this reminds me of my daughter, exactly! I started her on the straw straight away she didn’t like the sippy cup with the hard spout. She’s almost 8 months and started from a straw 6 months and got the hang of it straight away and now knows how to control how much fluid on her own. Did not take long at all! We totally underestimate these small little humans ???? I’ve just been doing my research and passed through this page. I’ve been breastfeeding my daughter never bottle also and decided I would like to express some milk for her to drink out the sippy cup for moments when I’m not with her and still breastfeed then see how she goes from there then when she turns 12 months I can feed her cows milk from sippy cup and breastfeed or maybe bottle? Tell me what you think I’d be glad to hear

  • The best part of today's video is watching your mouth as you you watch Noah's! Priceless! You are so trying to help!

  • Oh I can tell you lots about this. It is so awesome you are starting really early. Julian "got" the straw at 11 months.

    We used the Honey Bear straw from http://www.talktools.com to start
    http://www.talktools.com/s.nl/it.A/id.771/.f

    Now we use the Rubbermaid litterless juice box. He drinks it like a champ, holds it on his own. So proud! (these are $5 on Amazon but can be found in most supermarkets for $2 or $3
    http://www.amazon.com/Rubbermaid-3117RDSPA-Litterless-Juice-Boxes/dp/B000VPBL98/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1311677858&sr=8-1

    Don't ever use sippy cups you are right!

    Now we need to start Julian with the cup....any suggestions anyone has?

    • I am going to have to get the litterless juice box. Have you done more of the talk tools stuff? I see they have a whole package for Down syndrome with the straws and horns and such. I know that they recommend the honey bear but I was thinking that things you can get at the store would be quite similar.

      • My client's Mom did the straw kit and it really helped with keeping her tongue in her mouth- and now that she can hear (yay hearing aids!) her speech is really improving.

        Sippies are my worst enemy! I like the Playtex straw cups- they're great because they have a valve in the straw and therefore won't spill- great for the car.

    • I loved watching the videos of Julian! He is adorable! He sure can handle that spoon well. And the straw! Thanks for sharing.

  • Firstly, this website is so lovely - and Noah is SO CUTE!

    We had Oskar with a sippy cup after the bottle, because he was a bit apprehensive about the straw when he was younger - so a few months ago, I started offering him the straw cup every couple of days, no pressure, and if he didn't want it, I'd just put it on the bookshelf. After a couple of weeks of this, he went over to the bookshelf, unprompted, picked it up, and started using the straw like he'd been doing it for ages! It was so lovely to see! I should say he much prefers the hard straw than the regular straws, it took me a while to work it out, so if any of your babies don't take the regular straw, you can buy cups with harder straws on the top. Now we have one sippy cup, only for milk after dinner (phasing this out at the moment!), and we have a doidy cup and a normal plastic beaker, both of which he loves trying to drink from (with some success now, woohoo!), so I'm hopeful that we'll be using a beaker much more in the next few months. Since using the straw more, Oskar's speech has started to come through, and the range of sounds he's making is growing day by day - coincidence? I doubt it. We have 'ball', 'no', 'yes', 'want more' and 'no more' all coming through in the last couple of months - this, along with his first few steps, is making this a very exciting time for us all! :)

    • That is so fun that his speech is improving. And also walking at the same time. I can only imagine the celebrations going on at your house! Thanks for your cup/straw story.

  • Hi there
    Great website. I got my little girl straw feeding using a Honey Bear cup - but you can use pretty much anything. She will also drink from a cup. I was given a really good bit advice before I started with the cup which was to use a thickened liquid which therefore moves more slowly. We used smoothie and it worked a treat!Sarah

    • Oh thickener, my worst enemy. We had to thicken Noah's formula when he ate from a bottle, but the ST would tell us to use different amounts each week so I got a little frustrated with it. Have you found something that is similar to the honey bear in stores?

  • He is soooo gorgeous!

    We went from bottle to straw. I remembered the very first time Kaela sipped from a straw on her own. SUCCESS!! Ohh, the small joys. Kaela now will drink from a cup or straw.

    • How old is Kaela now? I love the small things. I am pretty sure I appreciate those a lot more now than I used to.

  • Hi! I have a gorgeous lil man named Max who is always surprising us with his amazing abilities! He will be 5 tomorrow but when we were doing the cup transition because he was born premmie he is still quite small so I found his little hands couldn't grasp the cups easily, so I got some small disposable cups ( like the babycino ones at Mcdonalds and cafes) and I cut a half circle from the top of one side so that when he tipped it up his nose wasn't buried in it. His little hands could control this cup very well and now he is a pro with any cup! We had many attempts at the straw but a can of coke helped with that! He doesn't have soft drinks but obviously thought it was something he wanted. He now uses straws but no more cokes. (sorry Max)! lol

    • I love that idea about the cup! I keep thinking I need to give Noah a smaller bottle as I think he could feed himself then.

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